The micro cycle(80 years):
Hard times create strong men
Strong men create good times
Good times create baby boomers
Baby boomers create hard times...
The macro cycle(800-1200 years):
Hard times create patriarchy(where rights are dependent on responsibilities, since men usually take more responsibilities than women this system is described as patriarchy)
Patriarchy creates good times
Good times creates feminism(equal rights independent of responsibilities)
Feminism burns everything down, creating hard times...
To Adam God said, "Because YOU LISTENED TO YOUR WIFE & ate from the tree about which I commanded you not to:
Cursed is the ground because of you, through painful toil you will eat of it, all the days of your life."
-Genesis 3:17
Man's hierarchy of needs:
1 Safety
2 Food & Water
3 Shelter & Sleep
4 Social & Sexual needs
5 Communal & self esteem needs
6 Self Actualization
Women's hierarchy of needs:
1 Equality of Opportunity
2 Equality of Outcome
3 Equality of Authority
4 Equal Authority with no Responsibility
5 All the Authority with no Responsibility for the women
6 All the Responsibilities & no Authority for the man or men(especially sexual responsibilities & authorities).
A tyrant has 100% authority with 0% responsibility.
A slave has 100% responsibility with 0% authority.
Today marriage, as redefined by the female democratic majority and family court system, makes the man a slave to a tyrant wife, who can divorce him at will, stealing his children, his wealth, and his human dignity.
All women natural unregulated desire is to have sex with high status bad bad boys and get innocent men to pay for the responsibility consequences(abortions, kids ect.). That's why women, no matter how meritocratic, should never vote.
Women want equal rights authority to make all the decisions in their own life when the alpha fucks opportunity is there. Its when responsibility slowly comes knocking that women want to shift responsibility back over to innocent men. Women want to sit at the poker table of the socio-sexual market place & make bets & authorize promises in the hundreds of thousands in reproductive costs when they can only actually back up a few pennies worth of responsibility. If women CAN'T take responsibility for a authorization, then they CAN'T have equal authority/rights as the guy who can.
Show me a man who takes by force what he wants from women and I'll show you 100 women who vote to take by force what they want from men. Show me a grave created by patriarchy and I'll show you an entire graveyard created by feminism/communism.
"Any society that negates the role of the father in the voluntarily marriage contract from decent civilization building men and replaces it with a involuntary centralized welfare state will not remain civilized for long."
Religion gives these guys power, authority, influence, popularity and control. Without it, they're nothing. They use it to flex and satisfy their egos. They're too proud and arrogant to admit their whole life has been a lie. They have got it in their heads that Islam can not be false even if it is. Who knows if they really truly believe in it?
Some miracles
1.Eucharistic miracles
2.Miracles of Lourdes
3.Incorrupt body of St. Francis Xavier
4.Liquefaction of blood of St. Januarius
5.Levitation of St Joseph of Cupertino
6.Our Lady of Fatima
7.Conversion of satanic priest Blessed Bartolo Longo because of Rosary
8.Stigmata of St. Padre Pio, St. Francis of Assisi
9.Lepanto victory due to rosary
10.Our Lady of Velankanni
11.Our Lady Of Guadalupe
12.Our Lady of the Pillar
13.Miracles of St. Anthony
The amount of women I’ve met that tell me that they’ve never had a SERIOUS relationship, that they’ve never loved anyone (despite being with many people) is very odd to me.
Particularly coming from women who PROFESS to have always been looking for THE ONE! That they were “just having fun” hooking up Tinder, waiting for the RIGHT GUY TO COME ALONG (in which case they would HAVE GLADLY STOPPED sleeping with all those random dudes)... Essentially, they want you to HONESTLY BELIEVE is, that they were having fun acting like a whores until a great man came along to make an honest woman of them I don’t know if i’m more annoyed at that statement because of the entitlement, or the willful lie. Either way one can’t take this type of woman seriously. You can only take her as junk food (because that’s what she’s offering herself as)
Listen up chika no man who’s looking after his health, is going to have McDonald’s as his STAPLE diet (long-term). If you act like junk food, you’ll be eaten (and thrown away) like junk food.
I know, I know - women love the romantic exception, that she’ll be the ridiculously special one. All the other girls will keep getting treated like drive-through garbage, but not her!... She’ll be the only greasy burger that a man (who’s serious about his health) will say, “I know it’s a greasy fast-food burger, but I'm going to pretend it’s a salad!”... no, when a man decides he wants to get serious, he grows up. He doesn’t “roll the dice” on drive-through women. He avoids whores, just like a woman (should) avoid bad boys. But she doesn’t... and perhaps that's the big advantage of being a guy who has to ask women out and impress them so they’ll say yes. You start wondering what you’re asking to say yes to you. It gets embarrassing when you realise you’re trying to impress a pretty clown... again.
Eventually, men start paying attention to what we’re buying. More precisely, we stop throwing our time and money away on the same junk. Life is too short.
Anyone "hooking up and having fun WHILE waiting for the 'right one' to come along" isn't to be taken seriously. A wise person keeps themselves pure for someone. You don't sleep around and pollute yourself while "waiting for the one." There will be no "the one" for women who do this. Not only will a pure man likely not want them but they won't be able to commit to anyone anyway.
Women can't love a man the way he wants and needs to be loved. Women love pragmatically, men love romantically. A woman will never love a man for his soul, his character or his creativity. She "loves" him for what he provides her, he is utilitarian to her.
When one is always the object of others’ affection, attention or desire we shouldn’t be surprised that they feel entitled to these things and don’t know how to give them.
There’s no point thinking you’ve got her UNDER CONTROL during the honeymoon phase... The problem with all these PUA techniques is that, if she likes you at the start she’ll ACT AGREEABLE ANYWAY. She’ll like whatever you like. She’ll listen to whatever you’re saying, but YOU’LL THINK she’s submitting to your frame. No... She’s acting UNTIL SHE HAS YOU. Until you’re in love. While you’re there thinking she’s submitting to your ALPHA FRAME let's see what your FRAME counts for when the honeymoon period is over.
The art of manliness is just like playing poker.
You underplay you hand when you're strong, and bluff like crazy if you're weak.
The time when women believed in the fantasy of love ended in the 60s, now they simply act out their masquerade until the honeymoon phase of the romance script is over. The male props with their machismo act don't realize that they are in a film, and props are interchangeable.
To be a man is not to fit an image it is to empower what is within. The more I see young men reaching for masculinity to guide them through getting tough, building muscles, fighting and so on the more I see desperation. Let me be clear, I fight, I build strength, I do ‘masculine stuff’, but I don’t do it to cover up me feeling like less of a man.
Young men, I get it…I understand the draw to combat, toughness and the alpha image. I live it…but I would never call myself alpha. This is because being a man means you live your life, you build yourself, at times you don’t know, at times you lead and fail, but in that the sacred masculine can reveal one of its many faces.
Don’t get too caught up in shooting guns, looking good enough for the pop culture shaping your insecurity. Go into the fire, go into the doubt. Face your fears and bring that to your life and eventually the world.
Real women don't respect players nor mess with them. they go for man who works a lot and is funny and kind to her, can actually provide for her. it's never about the sex, it's about the connection, trust, respect, building. something fake men do not get, while they use woman after woman, or girl after girl, ruining women out here making more narcissists. but fuck anyone who chooses to become a narcissist purposely.
No matter if they are poor or rich - in fact the poor narcs are the worst cause they tend to do any cruelty to ride the ladder to the top! My opinion about what we call alpha is that doesn't exist. Someone is better at this point and worst to the other. Everyone carries his own cross with his power and that's why I avoid to compare anyone except me with my yesterday self! Even wealth doesn't last forever - I saw that to many of them who failed and they weren't able to work a simple job and they committed suicide! A hot and sexy girl today - an ugly and evil person tomorrow!
Be a man of purpose. Quit focusing on the women. When you keep grinding on you spiritually, physically, mentally, and financially then you will go to a place you’ve never been before. The right type of women will come.
Start acting the way you’d like to be, and soon you’ll be the way you act
The most confident person in the world is the one who does not need to feel elevated, they are fulfilled without it. Their work or challenges are enough to cause a s sense of purpose. Accomplishing something together with others is a great pleasure to the normal rational person, no need to be superior or special.
You can spot a fake alpha by their bag of tricks. They don't have a sincere kindly smile or manner that lights up their eyes. They dole out scowls, fiery looks, calumny, and sabotage OR obsequious, drippy flattery depending on how their control techniques are working and on how useful they deem you to be
True Alphas have an intact ego and a sense of self, so they don't have to force an agenda on others.
Narcissists HAVE to force an agenda on others not doing so would mean descending into a personal hell, possibly ending in a psychotic break or suicide.
But society seems to admire anyone with a take charge attitude, even if they're nuts.
I had a sobering realization, the other day. So, many of the very destructive narcissistic and borderline personalities that I have experienced really did have actual , though repressed, deficits. Mostly, in the categories of 1. Not feeling intelligent ( as in learning disabilities) or 2. Being told that they lacked attractiveness ( and believed it ). I had a rush of compassion, thinking that it must create a dream state in them, fighting these shameful feelings. Alphas always seem to have something to prove, mostly to themselves. The irony is that they don't value the people that they want to impress. So, sad.
Fakers ALWAYS do things for THEMSELVES (they are takers); whereas, those that are true Alphas do things for the sake of themselves AND others, in an equal way (giving). It boils down to the Golden Rule.They don’t know anything about loyalty but they demand it from you . They don’t see anything that’s not about themselves they are so self focused they don’t see anyone else.
Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder
Grandiose sense of self-importance.
Lives in a fantasy world that supports their delusions of grandeur.
Needs constant praise and admiration.
Sense of entitlement.
Exploits others without guilt or shame
Frequently demeans, intimidates, bullies, or belittles others.
The narcissist can cause some of these attributes in their victim. Be careful. Non disordered people have disordered reactions to disordered people. Specifically becoming thin skinned because you’re expecting the narcissistic attacks. I think demanding loyalty applies as well.
VERY IMPORTANT! the narcissist can sometimes be calm under pressure so they can push u and push you underhandedly and then when you react to the abuse they are cool as a cucumber saying things like you're crazy you are abusing them or like man u really have anger issue huh? crazymaking at its finest. follow your intuition use discernment love you all
One big difference between fake and real alphas is the real alpha knows that everyone he ever meets, and everyone ever alive for that matter, are both superior and inferior to him in some ways or others. This is a big part of how they/we are able to lead with such success.
The story of the term “alpha wolf” is fascinating and one in which Mech was an important player. In 1968, Mech finished the manuscript for what would become his best-selling book, The Wolf: The Ecology and Behavior of an Endangered Species. In it, he references the work of Rudolph Shenkel, a biologist who studied the behaviour of wolves in a German zoo in 1944. It was Shenkel who first coined the term “alpha wolf” in reference to his observation that male and female wolves seemed to compete to become dominant within their group. Mech then included the term in his book.
The trouble with Shenkel’s work was that wolves behave very differently in the wild than in zoos. When you take a group of human strangers and put them together, alpha men and women tend to emerge. According to Mech this also happens with other animals, including wolves. But wolf packs don’t form in the wild the way that they do in captivity; instead of strangers being thrust together, wolves form around family units. The “alpha male” in a pack is usually just the “dad,” the “alpha female” just the “mom”, and the rest of the pack follows their lead, not because of some competitive vying for dominance, but because it’s mom and dad.
Mech came to this realization when studying wolves in their natural habitat in the Arctic. When it became obvious that using the term “alpha wolf” in his first book had been misleading, he began to publish articles correcting the misinformation. It took him over a decade, but eventually, the references of “alpha” behaviour among wolves in scientific literature fell precipitously. Unfortunately, Mech has been unable to dislodge the term from mainstream consciousness (to his frustration)."
December 19th 2019 I was getting annoyed with this Alpha Beta dynamic. I was able to conceptualize an entire story dedicated to this mainly for the men and boys who need it. I am 3 minutes in and I am not surprised to be close to what is being discussed. I even came up with examples of a few short stories that show life of alpha.
1. Alpha leader of the pack says we're going hunting, then a hunting we shall go! Think wolves.
2. One day alpha instructs beta to delegate a task. The measly complainers disobey beta and run to alpha saying beta told us to do this and we were like no alpha would never say that we don't listen to him, but we listen to you alpha. Alpha then says that he did say that and instructed his second beta to inform you. Beta carries my will and if you don't listen to him, then you don't listen to me! You can see where this is going.
3. One day alpha is wounded (think wolves or humans) suppose he needs a day or two of rest to get back to full strength. While alpha sleeps the cretins that want and desire power sneak out of their beds in the night to kill alpha or force alpha to submit to them. When they arrive they see beta just sitting there staring at them. He's been awake this whole time and they hadn't noticed him until now, but he just sits there not moving, waiting for them to cross that threshold point of no return where he is allowed to strike them down.
For those who think beta is a weakling remember that beta is often a weapon but a well trusted individual of alpha. Most people don't realize that beta usually is next in line following proper structure.
Personally I think that every man has the potential to be an alpha especially since he would be providing for and raising his family.
Remember that even though someone is an alpha they can be a weak alpha just like they can be a weak leader, we all have our strong days and off days. I hope you get what I have shared and wouldn't mind any of your examples or stories as well.
Though it's been proven by diverse studies since several decades, "leaders" still don't understand that when people feel respected and good in their environment, they're 30% more productive. Wherever you have unfriendly, gripy employees, look at the leadership, most likely the fish's head stinks. In 40 years of work experience in different jobs at different levels, I have only met a handful of true leaders who want their people to unfold their fullest potential and help them to do just that. The vast majority of leaders had no people's skills at all, used force to get things done and didn't want to be responsible for anything; they wanted the pay and the prestige, but didn't want anything to do with earning them.
A real leader welcomes adversity and will take other's adversity upon themselves in order to facilitate growth in that individual. A real leader cares more for the crew than for his/her own well being. A real leader doesn't make you cry.
I don't think a natural, strong leader ever uses that word.
When you meet an alpha person, you know if it's real. It's the kind of person that you follow with ease. Nothing wrong with that. We can't all lead.
Such a person doesn't brag about being alpha...
A narcissist who wants to be alpha, is cruel and unstable. You feel that to.
A narcissistic alpha wannabe shouts in your face. A true alpha has a conversation.
One is immature and one is not. You choose.
Fake alpha persons have done damage in my life. I've learned my lesson.
Titles (such as "alpha") are negotiated with everyone else, not self-assigned. Those who advertise it, including females, are just distracting themselves from dealing with their own internal issues feeling insignificant, shamed, threatened, irrelevant, or perhaps just unimportant and with no sense of control.
The alpha has to be predisposed otherwise it doesn't feel right, I see it a lot, because we alphas basically see it in one another right away, we mostly play tricks like exchanging the leadership role in a situation and see how the other alpha will react, if he is alpha, he will let me do it, then I let him do it, and we are just like, great, safety accomplished, let's get stuff done. and I can see it in kids too, which basically state that the alphas are in fact born
The second you attack someone's credibility, it means their point is valid and you can't address it, just so you know. Everytime you ever done that in your life, and it probably is your go to response, you are making an ass of yourself and broadcasting to everybody around you that you aren't a safe person to be around, just be yourself don't worry about it, be understanding instead of confrontational, things will go a lot smoother for you. Also, do you not get that you can't shame the alpha that just doesn't work.
The real function of an alpha is to bring the group together, not to impose their will. I've been a leader in many situations. I purposely seek out opposing views to bring them to the attention of the team to determine their merit. I promote healthy debate to make sure our team has the best direction possible. Once the team has come to a determination, we, as a team, focus our time, talents and efforts to achieving that goal.While I may present my vision as a starting point, it is not set in stone by any means until every member of the team has had the opportunity to express their ideas. As a leader, I feel that I have succeeded when we all work toward a common goal. I have failed if there is something wrong with the plan and the person who knew it was not heard.
The need for Power and control, derives from insecurity! The Insecurity was not planted in the womb, but planted on them through abuse in home, abuse out of home, environmental abuse, mob mentality abuse upon them. The victimized, either become abusers or victims. The victims of abuse are usually the ones who go for help, wondering what they are doing wrong. The abusers power and control is their mode, without the fix , they have to look at themselves and that is terrifying for them!
A real leader doesn't have to pull rank or dominate others. They have the experience, wisdom and ability to inspire people on their team and lead by example. People automatically respect their experience and ability to pull the group together. I've seen people try to lead by intimidation vs leading by inspiration, and there's no contest. Somewhere in between the narcissist and true alpha is the Primadonna.You can never disagree if you disagree he would shut you out he expected you to be loyal to him but he was never loyal to you and if you didn't do things his way he would pressure you and manipulating to doing what you didn't want you couldn't win so the only way was to leave and go somewhere else that wouldn't treat you that way
A real alpha commands respect. A fake one uses whatever means they think will get it whether it be anger, intimidation, coercion, manipulation, guilt, perceived guilt, play victim, etc. Real alphas at least show regard for you by addressing any concerns they have to your face. Fake ones speak behind your back.The true alpha has empathy and emotional intelligence. Narcissists fail at that miserably!
I will not work with fake alphas who tried to be big men, in the long term it.
I've become tiresome all their mind games and their nonsense it doesn't get me anywhere with those individuals, so I leave them alone.
Few Alpha male role models were available while growing up in the 1950s and 60s save military ones. Generals MacArthur, Eisenhower, Patton, and Lemay were names of WWII extraction and Cold War notoriety. During the mid-60s and 70s General Westmoreland was the chief top hat. A group of actors, comedians, and singers were designated The Rat Pack. The Kennedy brothers were associated with packaged Hollywood contractors, entertainers, producers, and starlets. High flyers and astronauts were on the fast track to becoming the new breed of male exemplars with The Right Stuff. U2 pilot and public persona Gary Francis Powers was caught between a rock and a hard place over Russia. The legacy names of science and diplomacy were Oppenheimer, Einstein, Schweitzer, and Kissinger. Outstanding business and corporate examples were few; like Ford's Iaccoca (recently characterized in the film Ford v. Ferrari). Jacques Ellul's The Technological Society and Propaganda: The Formation of Men's Minds foresaw the mediated movements of the late twentieth century.
I once read an account of the assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand and his Duchess wife in 1914. Their killings are considered by history to be the most immediate cause of World War I. The details are such that the assassination occurred as the Archduke and his wife were part of a small motorcade. It wasn't an immediate event like the JFK assassination; there was some disturbance ahead of where the Archduke's automobile was. Rather than sit and wait or send a subordinate to see what the ruckus was about, the Archduke took it upon himself to investigate. This decision did not help his chances of escaping assassination unfortunately, but it did demonstrate that a nobleman knows the importance of protecting one's people - noblesse oblige.
Archduke Franz Ferdinand and Duchess Sophia both lost their lives in Sarajevo that day in 1914. But he will forever be remembered as someone who selflessly gave his best effort at protecting others even if it meant paying with his own life. Noblesse oblige is the "alpha dog" version of the privileged.
What the alpha does in life ultimately is their ability to keep people honest, which turn the space around them as a "safe space" meaning if anybody misbehave around me, I will go and deal with it, meaning that basically, if you can see me, your feelings are safe, you can be you, you can be creative, spontaneous, without worry, there wont be some gnarly snappy comebacks at you, and if there are, I am going to smack it down, shame is very very strong for that, as the alpha, shaming me is a hopeless cause, but for anybody else, you better get what I am saying otherwise I will make you feel so terrible in front of everybody, now that concept might seem cruel, but it really isn't because that's how people learn, you show them how to behave by your exemple and you point out the shame in their behavior, which hurts like a dozen little darts on your heart, so you are compelled to act. For non-alpha to understand the principle(because alphas are born not grown, its genetics, if your genetics are top1% of mankind, you get to be the alpha, hurray, this is why the alphas are always at the top, always working hard, always "genius" in some way, like I am good at everything I try, period. and if I am bad at something, I understand it and I work on it.) Basically the programming changes and the instinct raises you as the dominant male, you get to make the decisions, you get to be righteous, you align your goals on the greater good, etc. And the rest of the population that didn't get the super amazing genes, just you know your regular ol' genes, that are unreal amazing anyways, being human, any human is such a ridiculous treat to any consciousness, I could be a bull instead or a cockroach lol, that would be interesting, but nah I am human and proud. The rest of the people are meant to be lead, and their way to be lead is by determining what constitutes a good leader for themselves and then follow them. The concept of safety is the most important imo, it enables people to be themselves and feel good and work well, ignore the little problems and focus on the bigger goals of their lives.
Control and leadership or reliability etc are different things. Control is always destructive, it’s negative. I think control should be differentiated from management / mastery. The positive you elucidate here is mastery and control is the narcissist version.
In a real relationship nobody would have control it would be equal they might have a college degree and I don't but I know things they cannot learn in college and I not only dogged that narcissist they took me to court and I have Checkmate for them I hope they have fun in jail
The true alpha would never describe themselves as an alpha, whereas the fake alpha will put that on their business card.
In the world of dogs and wolves the Alpha is loved and admired. Humans who try to take over the Alpha role, just as in the canine world, who don't lead with compassion and with the best interest of the pack, will at some point be taken down by the pack and forced to leave their territory. If they don't leave on their own, may be subjected to some bared teeth.A real alpha is a leader, the false alpha is the boss. A real alpha leads from the back. The fake alpha leads from the front.
The fake alphas are the weak ones who crumble when confronted. The tough guy attitude It's all a facade hiding a coward
Narcissism psychopathy is a common social problem of humanity they have no empathy and they hunt like animals
Everyone competes in some ways. but the major trait of an alpha is helping others. beating others for social position is not the sign of an alpha. alpha is about leadership. leadership is about winning at a shared goal. if the goal of a man is to beat out others and that's his only reason for competing then he's not a real alpha. Michael Jordan is a great example. Yes he was incredibly competitive, but he was always competitive at third party things. Basketball, baseball, even gambling. He was always competing but he wasn't competing with men just to beat them to uplift himself. He was competing to win at a specific goal, and he helped his teammates improve to reach that goal. That's an example of a genuine successful alpha. Going towards success and bringing others with you, not putting others down so only you can win.
Alpha behavior is leadership behavior that leads in the right direction and takes care of others. If you are fighting with others for position you are not actually leading, you're simply competing with other men for position and attention, and once position is gained the "alpha" male thinks he's won. But that's only the beginning. From there where do you lead? How a man leads is the crux of what makes an alpha an alpha. Many men today are experts at amogging and fighting other men and putting other men down, but how many men today are actually proper leaders? How many men today actually are qualified to lead in the right direction? Men who are proper alphas need proper women. To fight and vie for position is not necessarily what alphas do. It's more like what men who WANT to be alphas do. A genuine alpha is a man who is skilled and accomplished, who has iron clad self confidence and knows where he's going. He's not in competition with others because he doesn't need to be. His competition is himself. And he is focused only on success and the process of success, which doesn't include vying for social position with other males. It is about winning at a specific goal ,and helping others. The goal is not to defeat others, but to make sure others succeed. This is a quintessential trait of a genuine alpha.
Many men today are skilled at competition with other men, but how many of them are skilled in their profession or skilled in leading in the right direction? You may be able to win by trickery or deception, but then what? Once you get to the "top" then what? Amogging and fighting with other men is a beta trait. Beta men are vying for position, while alpha men are busy developing skill sets and making sure others are helped. Beta men are fighting to get to the top so they can get the best women, while alpha men are making sure others are taken care of. They seek the woman with character and genuine virtue, not just the woman that all the other guys want. This is how you can spot a fake alpha male. Yet many women today are satisfied with these type of men. Which is a problem. Actually men need to choose better women, or rather men need to re-evaluate their courting and mating process, and stop playing into hypergamy in this way. Quality matters, not quantity.
The single biggest issue with that mentality, as evidenced by Alpha M's "he's a good guy, buuuuuuut", is the fact that inherent to it is the idea that women, rather than sentient humans with thoughts and agency, are malicious, semi-sapient automatons, that can only be "wooed" via psychological manipulation, and give the man no value beyond sex, which is, I daresay, incorrect. I don't consider myself an expert on dating, quite the opposite, but based on both first, second, and third hand experience, I can say fairly confidently, that the most successful approach with women is to, well, treat them like you would any other human being. And if you get "friendzoned", you're still at a net gain, if you actually take advantage of the friendship, as a girl-friend can both help you directly, by answering your questions about women ("What should I do to get a girlfriend" is a perfectly viable question to ask, if your friend is comfortable enough knowing you wouldn't hit on her), as well as expanding your social circle to her friends (the phrase "we need to find you a man" is not as uncommon as one might think, and girls will obviously most likely point towards men they know are reliable). Basically, if you treat a woman like any other human being, you will almost always come out net positive for everyone involved, contrary to what the Manosphere may claim.
This alpha stuff just seems so sad. I wish I could help people out of this pit of despair.
I don't want to encourage the "alpha/beta" way of thinking, but it always confused me why the supposed alphas were the ones so obviously "not-alpha." So full of doubt. That they don't see how being their own men and expressing their masculinity in their own way is a thousandfold more manly than copying the vapid personality of another. By their own way of thinking they are farthest from what they actually want.
I am a man and I don't want to be a billionaire, or even a millionaire. If I were to gain that amount of wealth, I'm afraid I would live the life of an "-illionaire" and lose touch with reality and end up like Bill Maher. Sure, it might be fun to live out a life of luxury in The Sims, but in real life, I imagine a mansion like Hearst Castle (which has three pools decorated with gold, a zoo, a private movie theater, it's own airport, and enough land to ride on horseback for quite a while), and status as someone with that amount of money would just be a lot of maintenance both of the physical property as well as the reputation that goes along with it, which would lead to a massive headache. Think the lyrics of The Who song "Eminence Front".
If that's what I have to deal with, I'd rather live in a comfortable-sized home with an amount of bedrooms that's necessary, have a job that's fulfilling, enough time for hobbies or family (not that I have one, but I digress), enough room for a dog, and enough room to store my books and computer.
You would think "Alpha" males would seek out strong women who are confident, emotionally mature and independent. From my experience every guy I've ever known, who claims to be alpha, only seeks out young women who are insecure, unsure of what they want in life and are very dependent.
The way I see it, if u cannot go 1vs1 barehanded against a bear u aint an alpha man. There is something called alpha/high value traits but if u need to go to any rando on this planet and tell him how u re alpha and he is beta u re in a fact serious loser. There can be only 1 alpha in herd, so i am to believe that childish guys trashing one another are hvm? Grow up.
