Matrimony is the contractual union of a man with one or more women, primarily for the purpose of PROCREATION and child-rearing.
The couple should be brought together by their respective parents, and if practical, some sort of nuptial ceremony performed. Once a couple has been engaged to be married, they should not break the agreement, unless one party has been proven to have lost his or her virginity with a third party. OBVIOUSLY, after the wedding, the marriage contract cannot be broken, unless one or both parties has committed adultery, or one party has chosen to no longer carry out his or her marital duties (for instance, if the husband refuses to materially-support his wife/wives, or the wife refuses to perform domestic chores for her master, both of which are legitimate grounds for divorce).
A RESPONSIBLE father will objectively evaluate the unique characteristics, virtues, idiosyncrasies, and shortcomings of his child from a relatively early age, and thereafter, seek a compatible spouse from the available pool of persons in his social circles. Unless his nation faces extinction, the potential match should not be any closer to his child than a cousin. If a prospective couple do not share the same family name, it’s probable that their genetic code is sufficiently divergent to create healthy offspring. As implied above, incestuous marriage should only be condoned if the human race is in danger of extermination, or possibly in the instance where an entire race/nation is on the verge of annihilation.
If one’s parents fail in their duty to select a suitable mate, one should very carefully choose a COMPATIBLE spouse. The recommended criteria used to evaluate marital compatibility are as follows: physical characteristics (such as relative height and sexual attractiveness), personality type, intelligence, emotional temperament, diet, cultural similarities, political ideology, religious affiliation, and life goals.
One of the major causes of conjugal breakdown in recent decades has been due to the couple selecting each other based solely (or at least predominantly) on sexual attraction and/or amorous attachments, with little consideration given to the other guiding principles, listed above.
Romance rarely lasts more than a couple of years. Marriage is an institution based largely on PRACTICAL considerations, not on lustful feelings or on fleeting sentimentality. Without firm, practical reasons for a couple remaining conjugally-bound, they are susceptible to marital divorce.
Generally speaking, women have the potent desire to raise children, and require a man with which to mate, and then protect and support her and the offspring, during the fifteen-plus years (for EACH child) of child-rearing. Most men also desire to have a family, and additionally, possess a very powerful libido, which, if not channelled in a legitimate fashion, can cause a great deal of social misbehaviour (e.g. rape, etc.).
There is no such thing as a nun in the eyes of God. Therefore, unless a woman is seriously disabled, either physically or psychologically, or else a lesbian, she is lawfully OBLIGATED to marry the man preselected by her parents (or if her parents are deceased, by her extant master, whether that be her grandfather, an uncle, or an adult nephew). Ideally, women ought to be betrothed as soon as they reach adulthood, to avoid a childless existence. Quite understandably, very few men have aspirations to mate with a postmenopausal female.
Marriage is mandatory for men too, apart from missionary priests, those unfortunate males who are unable to support a family for reasons of mental or physical incapacity, men who are simply passed-over by hypergamous females due to being perceived as low-value suitors, homosexuals (meaning, men who are not at all attracted to the opposite gender. Bisexuals are not exempt from marriage), and men who reside in jurisdictions where ILLEGITIMATE feministic governments enact so-called “laws” which abrogate the lawful rights of married men.
In my particular case, despite being a model husband and father, my first wife, with the support of the dirty, demonic, democratic Australian government, literally kidnapped my three precious children, whilst my second wife, with the assistance of the equally-wicked, violent, murderous Filipino government, stole my presbytery (the house of a priest).
The recent exodus of men in Western countries, from the dating pool, is more than understandable.
The man should be approximately ten to twenty years OLDER than his wife/wives. Some of the reasons for this are:
It is natural for women to be attracted to older men and for men to be attracted to younger women. There is a good evolutionary reason why women reach their sexual peak between the ages of about fifteen to twenty-five and why a man's sexual market value peaks in his thirties to fifties. The female matures earlier (physically and socially). The husband is almost a substitute for the woman's father figure, so the husband’s age gives him added authority as head of the family. It also gives the man extra time to establish his career, a house and home for his wife and forthcoming progeny.
The main duties of the HUSBAND are to teach his wife/wives and sons whatever beneficial lessons he has learnt from his own masters, protect his family from harm, and supply their necessities of life (that is, food, clothing, and shelter) as well as desired luxuries, if practicable. The English noun “husband” comes from the Old Norse word “hûsbôndi”, meaning “master of the house”.
Marriage is not a democracy. Any so-called man who compromises with his subordinates, whether they be his wife/wives or his offspring, is surely doomed to failure. Feminized western men, in particular, are guilty of such uxoriousness. Such emasculated “men” are not true men, and desperately need to regain their dignity as the head of their homes.
The main daily duties of the WIFE are to execute domestic chores such as to cook, clean, sew, take care of the children, and to keep the husband sexually satisfied so he doesn't look at other women.
The wife should submit to the will of her husband. She should fully respect him as her master, and should address him accordingly.
Whilst conversing, the wife should focus her attention completely on her husband. She should listen carefully to what he says, learn what he is saying, answer him, and obey his instructions. A man should never be alone with any female, apart from his wife, of course.
POLYGAMY has been taught by all the major religions. Unfortunately, the “westernized” religious cults seem to have done away with the practice for unbeknown reasons. The reason for polygamy is simply due to the fact that every woman needs a husband. Also, a certain proportion of men are destined to die as bachelors due to female hypergamy, which is a natural trait of women (even if it may seem unfair).
When a woman marries, she LITERALLY joins the family of her husband.
She takes her master's family name, and the husband's parents become her parents, which is why they are called “father/mother-in-law”, that is, “father/mother according to the law” (the one and only law of God, or more accurately, the Universal Law, as propounded in Chapter 12).
CONVERSELY, if a woman divorces her lord and master, she no longer has any rights towards her previous family whatsoever.
She cannot legally (according to the inextricable moral law) take anything from her ex-husband’s family, whether that be his property (including the children born of that union) or his family name.
Unless her husband is guilty of adultery, she may take only whatever clothes she has on her body, and cannot return to her birth family, but is a loose woman. A noble man will instruct his former daughter to promptly return to her husband and submit to his will.
Therefore, a divorced woman is to be referred to as a child's EX-MOTHER (or former mother). Any person who considers the birth mother of a child to still be that child’s mother (after divorcing herself from her master's family), is naught but a pathetic enabler of sinful behaviour, unless, as previously stated, the husband was proven to be an adulterer or grossly negligent in his duties as the patriarch of his family.
As far as practical, newlyweds should RESIDE in the house of their father (that is, the father of the groom, which is the bride’s father-according-to-the-law). The benefits of this living arrangement greatly exceed any possible disadvantages, assuming, of course, that the father-son relationship is amiable. Women, in particular, need the comfort and support of being surrounded by extended family. When facing relationship difficulties, emotional distress, or medical problems, women require the counsel of elder females, such their grandmother, mother-in-law, or an aunt. Although males generally do not feel the same need for close familial bonds, it is beneficial for men to maintain a strong relationship with their male kin. The storehouse of knowledge and wisdom preserved by the patriarchy is invaluable for any young man, no matter his level of intelligence or seeming sagacity. Also, if the husband dies or becomes severely disabled, his wife has a safe haven for herself and her offspring.
Furthermore, there are significant financial advantages to the extended family dwelling in the same house (or at least in the immediate vicinity), which can never be discounted for the vast majority of families, which are not blessed with an abundance of wealth.
Just as the parents (hopefully) spent decades lovingly-raising their offspring, it is the sacred DUTY of adult male children to care for their elderly parents and, of course, any of their extant grandparents. If, for some reason, the sons are unwilling or unable to properly look after their ageing parents, that obligation will naturally fall to the parents’ nephews and nieces. Failing that, any relative (i.e. any adult male, or possibly female, within the clan) may take responsibility for the care of an ageing or disabled couple.
In the foregoing paragraph, where it is mentioned that the duty of care is placed upon a particular male relative, it should be understood that the ACTUAL daily tasks of caring for the ageing couple do not necessarily fall upon him personally. For example, if the son is busy at work, his wife and/or daughters must care for their elders. Obviously, it is quite improper for a man to bathe and toilet his geriatric mother.
Unless medical complications arise, the ideal location for a pregnant woman to birth her child is in her HOME, preferably midwifed by her mother-in-law and other female kin (that is, any girl or woman with whom she shares the same family name). Unless the mother is over the age of thirty-five, has an infection, or the baby is premature, underwater birthing is possibly the least stressful method of childbirth. This is best done in a properly-disinfected bathtub, filled with lukewarm water, purified via the process of reverse-osmosis. If possible, a qualified obstetrician should be consulted during the final trimester of pregnancy to confirm whether or not home-birthing is a safe option for the mother in question, and a physician contacted in the case of a medical emergency during the birth.
As far as possible and practical, infants should BREASTFEED exclusively for at least the first two years, and subsequently be slowly weaned with mashed fruits. The ideal human diet is fully explicated in the concluding chapter of this “Final Instruction Sheet for Humanity”, but for the benefit of those who are without access to Chapter 30 of “F.I.S.H”, children, adolescents, as well as adults, thrive on fully-raw vegetarian foodstuffs (or at least a mostly-raw plant-based diet, for those residing outside of the tropics).
The two most important facets of child-rearing are DISCIPLINE and AFFECTION. Apart from the obvious requirements of being properly fed, clothed, housed, and educated, children need, more than anything else, strict discipline, coupled with an enormous amount of love and affection.
Childhood trauma, caused by such things as parental neglect, physical and/or sexual abuse, and divorce, invariably results in severe psychological problems later in life, which requires an inordinate amount of therapy to overcome. Unfortunately, very few such persons receive adequate treatment for their particular form of neurosis, which often results in them causing a menace to themselves and to others. Those who are unable to hire a qualified psychologist to help with their disease, are advised to consult a competent yoga instructor, qualified in at least one of the four systems of yoga (religion) described in Chapter 16 of this Holy Scripture.
As children enter ADOLESCENCE, they ought to be physically and psychologically prepared to face the demands of life as an “independent” adult. Young women must be trained in the intricacies of life as a housewife and mother, whilst young men should be apprenticed in their chosen field of work (or for the small proportion of males with an entrepreneurial inclination, their careers as businessmen, and for an infinitesimally small percentage of men, to function as kings or as priests).
The nuclear family is the basic building block of any society. After carefully perusing the above precepts, it should be patently obvious that modern societies are ordered VERY far from the ideal in respect to family life, and that, unless individuals, organizations, and governments make concerted efforts to repair this foundational unit of society, the consummate destruction of human civilization is inevitable.
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and for the man who marries a woman who has divorced herself from her husband, both he and the woman have committed adultery.”
Lord Jesus Christ, Divine Incarnation,
“Gospel of Luke” 16:18.
“Educate your children to self-control, to the habit of holding passion and prejudice and evil tendencies subject to an upright and reasoning will, and you have done much to abolish misery from their future and crimes from society.”
Benjamin Franklin,
American Polymath.
“Raising children is, in a sense, the reason the society exists in the first place. It's the most important thing that happens, and it's the culmination of all the tools and language and social structure that has evolved.”
From “The Lost World” by Michael Crichton,
American Author.
Not only has the torch of true femininity not been passed down from mother to daughter, the torch of masculinity has not been passed down from father to son. Thanks to biased family courts and gynocentric laws, Man has been practically erased from the family unit.
Not just the laws but society as a whole despises men and it has been deeply ingrained for longer than most care to realize. The concept of male disposability since antiquity alone is a red flag that something is flawed with the human experience and history proves this time and time again.
Many Men go to their Grave trying to teach, and reform women. It's the simp nature embedded in men, Even mgtow men, that is forever trying to help, save and teach women. Men on a whole, treat women the way women treat their children.. Continuing to stunt their growth by protecting and trying to save them. Making women forever dependent and entitled then turning around and complaining about it. It's very sad and even becoming very irritating how men refuse to self reflect and see how their behavior towards women is partly to blame for the state of women.
This relies on women needing men which they progressively attempt to deny. Women don’t have these skills because women don’t rely on men anymore at least they don’t think they do. Men have built a civilization that basically allows women all the freedoms that men have without the costs while men still burden the costs. This makes women think men are not an essential part of those creating those freedoms which is the fundamental flaw. This will be true so long as sexual competition exists for reproduction as men will always have to exhibit traits above the general level to be deemed attractive while women have no such pressure being applied for their continued selection. Men will always be the first of the species to invent, build, risk, venture, etc. when women face resource based selection to the same degree as men, they will evolve resources acquisition based qualities and truly no longer need men to do the job.They do, in fact, like that title of"wife", because it shows they somehow "won" the hunt, most likely through some mental or visual manipulation tactic. They like to out-smart men (actually men's caveman programming), like a hunter in the wild. Marriage is only for them, and they know it. After a few years, they can tap out the resources and move on to the next prey. There's plenty of betas that can't see through modern makeup, hair color, fillers, and fashion techniques. Camo for the hunt. Women don't feel guilt. They do feel shame. This is a fundamental facet of their being/nature. If is the duty of mankind to shame womankind, for if she does not feel ashamed, everything (all that which is immoral, malicious, despicable, which she is capable), is game.
Don't expect women to feel guilty for behaving badly (or not providing any value in their being or doing). Guilt is literally beyond them. Shame (and fear of it) is her primary motivator, (aside from narcissistic supply/peer validation), both of which are interlinked. All that which she does, which harms others, especially reputationally, is done, to avoid the shame associated with openly assuming agency.
Hooking up on tinder, lying about the pill, jacking man-milk, getting preggo, refusing to acknowledge him or his stance, keeping the baby, and only chasing him enough so she can pass it off that she 'tried', is acceptable, as far as she's concerned. (the wrong thing to do).
Going to a sperm bank, is a no-no, despite the fact that it is the 'right thing to do', (because it doesn't involve exploiting, manipulating, and discarding, the man, with no regard for him as an equal), it would require her to overtly admit agency, whereas, exploiting a man, and smearing him, covertly hiding her intent/desire to disregard him, means she can do the bare minimum required, and immediately waive any and all agency, when the man reasserts his boundaries/stance.
Always shame women. Don't overtly expect them to feel guilt, because they cannot, but shame. They should be. Most single mothers in particular, especially if she believes it was his choice. She made the choice. The despicable choice to keep an unwanted child (likely deceiving the father to get it, though again, they'll always hide/omit that key point).Society as it stands today is unsustainable, Women are trying to be Men and Men are being forced to be more like Women, and that is against both of our natures as Men and Women, society is forcing its own destruction, modern western society is accelerating and solidifying its own destruction through ignorance and manipulation.
I never really looked for those qualities in a woman... Usually the old fashioned mentality is that the guy's gonna go to work and get home with a plate of food on the table, everything's clean and done so he doesn't have to do any decision making and keep the time-lapse flowing till the next day and the next.If I get a pretty girl that's freaky in bed I'm not gonna want to ruin my libido by turning her into some housekeeper.
I already know how to cook, clean, take care of the house and etc... I really don't need someone to do those things.
It becomes routine procedure after living like a single guy for a long time, and if the girl has good intentions, she's going to want to fix things... then the whole house smells like a chemical spill because she wanted to clean it really good and it smells like bleach the whole weekend... Gotta take time to train her to do it right... she gets pissed because "nothing I ever do is right" and blablabla headaches and no sex.
Just sit there read a magazine for something... I'll do it in 15 mins.
The "best" women on the left are those like Cardi B. They're only about sex, they're actual predators, and they have zero skills other than sex. The "best" women on the right are those like Tomi Lahren. They'll pretend to be anti-feminist, but they want and reap all of the benefits that feminism has given them, and their standards are so high that they don't realize why men don't want them.Oxymoronic to say that people can't be mature for their age while saying people can be immature for their age. Experiences bring maturity. A 16 year old boy who had to become the man of the house and take care of everything is going to be much more mature than the average 16 year old. A child who has to take on the responsibilities of an adult is going to behave like an adult. There are people who are mature for their age, and that childhood survivors of trauma are usually those people.
That being said, those people fall into two categories: actually growing up and learning quickly how to navigate the world, learning survival behaviors and (most importantly) learning to adapt; and there are people who stay like children, don't change, and turn into adult children. The difference between those two is treatment and support. I've actually realized I have a fault that impacts me. I am old school, and opinionated. Don't get me wrong, I feel that I support my views well, and I don't insult people in a disagreement generally. However, I am very old fashioned and many of my views are outdated, so many woke folk disagree with me often. People generally think their views are the right ones, even if proven wrong by clear evidence, people don't want to admit to being wrong. People don't like folks who prove they are wrong, and they don't like circumstances where they are wrong. As a musician I get a lot of negative feedback, sometimes it is just people's silence. It is a reality check to me, one that I don't always like getting myself. Perhaps the lesson here is having strong opinions and being argumentative, right or wrong, damages relationships, and ultimately hinders co-operation, and closes doors of opportunity. I say I am honest and give honest feedback, but most people don't really like honesty I guess. I don't mind good criticism, and I know for example my musical skills are always in a state needing improvement. There are good and bad aspects to my playing. I mainly do it for fun not for fame. Back to my original thought, maybe I should consider keeping my opinions to myself more often, and start fluffing people's egos more, even if I think they are clueless? I am not sure because that is disingenuous. There's nothing offensive about saying men built the world but it clearly offended them. A man builds the house while a woman builds the home. The two are complementary, as they should be. There are still women that are proud to build homes and care for the family but I'm afraid our numbers are dwindling. Most men can still troubleshoot and fix anything within their realm of knowledge, or at least try to learn something new. While most women ask their man to check the air in their tires or the oil in their car for them "strong and independent", the motto of soon to be leftover women. A stark inability of women (and modern men on a certain political side) to have an objective, constructive argument without getting defensive, throwing accusations, or emotionally distraught is a giant red flag in the sky no one is willing to address.The thing with success is that it usually takes a long time to develop. An overnight success takes 10 years of training, or words to that effect. There is no shortcut to success you need to not only work hard but to also work smart!
Effective leadership, managerial skills, and a professional network take years to develop. Often this requires you to put in the extra hours every week, to study every night, to work longer and to travel. You have to continually improve your knowledge base regardless of your qualifications. 99% of people are unwilling to do this, and of the 1% who do are mostly men.The thing with these sort of women is that they expect all of respect and rewards without putting in the time and effort. They decry the evil man for getting it all whilst they are in their early 20s and unwilling to work 60+ hours a week. I once had a woman demanding that I give her a senior position.... despite lacking the experience, qualifications and maturity. For some reason, me being male should just give her entitled arse the keys to many years of my work. You often need a good team to help you on the road to success as well as a good work environment. This is not always they case but you do need a good inner circle.
However, I see these sort of women all the time, with good looks but bad attitude. Some come into a workplace and completely spoil the environment with their bad attitude, many are fucking lazy, and bloody few are willing to put in the extra hours. The few that do though often end up successful but only after years of grafting but this is rare. The problem isn't just the money. The more important is dignity. I'm sure they will have less and less time and will be depressed. Because they don't do anything useful. They use simps and they use themselves. Both are just objects. They have no talent and they build nothing. They lie to themselves but they won't be able to do it all their life. Women who knows how to invest into their future gives zero fucks about feminism because they care about making their lives better and not about manipulating people to get them something they don't deserve. If you see anyone who calls themselves "feminists", therefore, are entitled idiots. You know if you have the chance to live at home in your early 20's - use the credit card modestly (try to pay it off at the end of the month or as fast as possible) and use some interest free finance for something you need (I used it for some furniture that I took with me when I moved out and still have) to build your credit rating because the fact is most of us will need a mortgage to buy a house sooner or later. I did that in my early 20's and while I paid a bit of interest I did build excellent credit (my score was nearly 800) which helped getting a mortgage. I'm telling you though guys - almost everyone gets into debt when they are young and dumb but for god's sake try to be careful. You never know whats around the corner, you could be in a little bit of debt and things are going fine and next thing you have a bump in the road and you are in even more. Luck = Preparation + Opportunity.You can have all the opportunities in the world, but if you're not prepared to seize them, others who did prepare will; and you'll have no luck. But if you're prepared, then all the opportunities you meet you'll seize them; and you'll have luck.Even the sons of rich people who get money lent to start their businesses (like Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos; and even Trump) must be prepared in order to manage that money and succeed. What men only want is to have a good relationship that isn't toxic and isn't a competition of who is better or not. A relationship is when the both of you understands and support each other, most importantly love each other. That's what a normal men want.Now if a men views it as a transaction like you fulfill each other's need (mostly physical) and doesn't want commitment, that's what you call a fuck boy. It can also goes to girls. It would seem lots of women today are oscillating between two states: They inhabit a state of narcissistic solipsism, but when reality crashes the party, it's straight to victim-hood. The more society encourages this type of behavior, the worse it will get for those who are unable to see it. At some point high quality men will be more valuable that bitcoin, and low quality women will become like Prussian franks.And then they say men earn more get the fuck out of here. A lot of men sacrifice a lot and live frugally in order to have wealth later and then feminists have the audacity to accuse men of having privilege or earning more or the same work... Even after all that, most men are still happy to sacrifice their time so that their partners can live comfortably. We don't care, we're happy to do all the hard work and provide but just maybe try to not treat us like shit so much. It is partially about luck , it isn't all just hard work If that wasn't the case people wouldn't win lotteries and walk away from gambling a millionaire or more simply by just paying 20 dollars for a ticket or playing poker. There is the truth behind luck making people rich, To say there isn't any luck at all is just ignorant and foolish to believe, that being said is Luck going to make you successful all the time? luck is a rare event about something good happening at the moment by chance that you just happened to be in the right place and time for but I have seen it happen first hand, you be surprised. This could have happened for a lot of successful people we see now, not everything is built on hard work even though that is the majority importance of it, There are some cases where luck does get you through business, in either case.To be frank, the world was built by men and that's a plain truth. The more complicated truth is that women were historically prevented from participating in the construction of the world they live in. So there's a balance between acknowledging the plain truth that the world is built by men and remembering that maybe it didn't have to be. When feminism push the notion that being loving and caring and nurturing for your man is BAD no wonder men avoid women or don't take them seriously. Feminism push women to all preach, "I don't need no man" and "I'm strong and independent" and "I don't gotta cook or clean or do anything!" you rule out 98% of all types of relationships entirely. How are you gonna feel some type of way to care for and nurture your family but you're 100% ok with catering to and doing everything your boss tells you to do? Everyone is serving somebody. Men do not care about your title and career and your boss attitude.If women want to pursue careers then I support that but do not shame men when they pass up those types of women. Men will always prefer a girl that is willing to be a nice and loving wife. Here's a red pill reality that these red pill men don't see: These women will have continue to have many financial options to fall back on until the rest of their lives that men simply don't have, onlyfans is temporary, but, its just another one of these making a living options that most men don't have, so, no, these women aren't as delusional as these men think, these women aren't men who would end up in the streets when onlyfans stops, they can marry and have blue pill boyfriends for a living, they can sell themselves in more ways, get child support, get government support, get family support and will continue to be just fine and much better than most men could ever imagine as financial options.This is something that many red pill men don't seem to accept, because, its just too painful. Most women are doing just fine and will continue to regardless of what happens with this world. Most men won't. Men being "frightened" or "intimidated" or "feeling threatened" by women is, like all feminist things, a lie, a myth, a complete fabrication.
Men are not, never were, and will never be "frightened", "intimidated" or "feel threatened" by women; men are, by any measure, from any standpoint, the superior gender, men are the ones who built the world, men are the ones who invented pretty much everything, men are the ones who continually operate society so it keeps working at every moment, men are the ones who are calling the shot everywhere, at every moment in the history of mankind, men are by their very nature, the leaders of mankind; and men are the very reason why women don't die from starvation or anything else.
Why women in Asia are more sought after and popular than women in the West? It's not only because they are taught to be more attractive, but because unlike in the West, women in Asia actually know their place in the hierarchy, and more than all, they actually know and acknowledge everything that men do for them, and they are grateful for it; they are fully aware that men have a much harder life while they are the most protected and privileged demography to ever exist, and they are grateful for that, and they understand that human civilization actually is a team, made from both men and women, and they are more than willing to play their role; and that's the difference with western women, who have been fed the lies of feminism for so long that they have become genuinely convinced that civilization is some kind of magic thing that works by itself and that everything they have is not the result of the hard labor of countless men who want to make them happy, but that it is something that is due to them because they are women. This is the exact behavior of 5 years old kids who never heard no from their irresponsible parents, and this is why women should never have gotten the right to vote, nor even remotely equal rights they never, ever fought for nor deserved, and prove every day that they lack every mental capability to properly use. When a man is asked what makes him less attractive he actually says flaws he has. When a woman is asked the same she makes underhanded compliments to herself like "i am independent", "i am a strong woman that men feel afraid off" etc. That is why they have fake friendships where they can only compliment each other and never be honest. I feel like the U.S. would benefit if after high school before you go to college you have to serve in the military for a year. And that doesn’t mean fighting wars you can be a technician or a nurses assistant in the army. That will teach kids what it is like to struggle and become tougher. Unfortunately, that really wouldn’t work in the U.S. since a lot of people take “freedom” too seriously. The best way to win is to not play the game.If you’re too independent that is not good you need some help sometimes. Also when you’re way too independent people will think you are a big dope and you only think about yourself and when you do end up needing help nobody will help you. Luck plays a role in success. It's like rolling the dice. Persistence will eventually yield good luck, and competence will sustain it. It's like the role of mutation in natural selection. Mutation is random, but selection pressures are deterministic. Your competence and persistence will determine whether random opportunities will contribute to your ultimate success. Using a third party system to give a product, which is already on the market, to your customers is not entrepreneurship. If I become a software developer and use a third party site to provide my services to customers, then that is not entrepreneurship either. I don't understand why so many people nowadays think that not having a classical 9 to 5 job as an employee at some company makes you an entrepreneur.Every every woman says “Next time I marry, I’ll marry for money”. Well good luck with that. Rich men aren’t stupid. Best advice for men NEVER GET MARRIED! Men aren't threatened by women not one bit..wow they are so full of themselves..the truth is men just don't like entitled, narcissistic personalities. In all seriousness though when guys do this at a young age: Essentially being cocky in their skills that are amateur at best get beat down quick to show exactly where their limit is and how big the gap between the experienced vs the green is. I myself had it happen, when I was a kid working at a meat shop. Within a couple of months I thought I had all the answers and wow I have the skills that pay the bills, but nope I was quickly shown how foolish I was and I HAD to accept that reality. These girls are impulsive, reactionary and cocky. They have no business telling others what they know about business since any woman with tits and a nice ass can start an OnlyFans and beat them out pretty quick. The thing is when they don't wanna hear it "I took a negative experience from this interview" and walk off? Really? Sit your ass down and take some notes. Society needs to start holding women accountable and treat them the same as men. Things would change almost overnight! Successful people don't get where they are mainly due to luck and they don't make excuses. I've worked with people who are in the same spot on their careers for years, complain about it, but do nothing about it. You know what-I'm sick and tired of this-why oh why do women think that selling their body online is like saving lives at a hospital? They are SELLING THEIR BODIES ONLINE-AND THEY WANT TO BE MARRIED AND HAVE KIDS? AND THE ONLY REASON WHY THEY HAVEN'T HAD THAT YET IS BECAUSE THEY THINK THAT THEY'RE TOO PERFECT-TOO SMART-TOO "INDEPENDENT"-TO POWERFUL? YOU SELL YOUR BODY ON EFFING LINE! NOTHING ABOUT THAT SCREAMS EMPOWERMENT! HOW CAN YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED OR HAVE KIDS-WHEN YOU'RE SELLING YOUR BODY-THE SAME BODY THAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE SAVED FOR MARRIAGE AND CHILDBEARING?! ANY MAN THAT MARRIES A WOMAN THAT SELLS HER BODY PERIOD-SHOULD HAVE NOTHING-AND I MEAN NOTHING-TO DO WITH HER. It's like becoming a rockstar...I bought a guitar, now I should be famous any day. You can perform for years and more than likely will never get real wealth. At least with music you reward yourself with the joy of playing lol.If a woman talks in that monotone, bored, self-absorbed voice and the majority of her conversational subject matter revolves around bragging, putting down others, and brainless repetitive popular social viewpoints -- they aren't worth a second of your time and attention. Don't buy into the weird idea that landing a high maintenance woman is a worthy pursuit of a successful man. She is not yours and she just happens to be your turn. Women don't love you, they love you for the feelings and the things and the experiences you can give them. So just focus on yourself and make yourself better financially .improve your health, your fitness...do your favourite hobbies , watching movies, enjoy life, travelling , do whatever it takes to make you happy. A woman is at the dead bottom on the list of priorities. If they cheat on you , bitch on you, not respecting you as a man, don't be afraid to dump her and move on . I don't care if she is hot , sexy or beautiful...don't let that override your thoughts...use your brain and think and move on... your time on in this world is limited and you have ONLY one life to live...why you want to waste your time on such women.A king who marries a woman makes her a queen A queen who marries a man, makes him... the husband of the queen, not a king Men are made, women are born. After I went red pill I started acting in a manner where girls who act like this held no sway or power over me and it pissed them off after about a year I found a good strong moral woman who is now the mother of our beautiful daughter you attract like minded people I’ll quote the great Paul Elam “If you fish with stink bait you’ll catch bottom feeders” be a man with values because men with values don’t play games with women and or their life and that in turns attracts high value women.Man, the whole "you can't tell me anything" thing. Like, look it, bitch, I can tell you whatever the fuck I want. Whether you wanna listen to it or not is up to you, but don't come in here thinking you can tell me what I can and can't do. It’s really hard to comprehend how people don’t understand cause and effect. What decisions/choices we make have a consequence. That’s just my opinion. Lots of self awareness and work on self to mature and grow from negative things in your life. The world was not built by just men. The world was built by both men and women the only difference was that men took most of the credit and have been given more opportunities.I'm not saying the girls were right but the guys weren't right all the way either. Programmers are men and women the only reason more men go into the industry for programming is because when growing up they are pushed into it more but women have been going into it more since the stigmas and sexist ideals have started decreasing. We are more equal and obviously are part of the problem.It's hard to fault a child for being a child because that would be equivalent to blaming a dog for barking or being upset at a baby for crying.I found that ignoring them is the best option. Never take any of them serious. Let the streets have them. Adios.You don't have to worry about telling an idiot they are making a mistake. Even if you warn them they'll still do it and there will be comedy gold reactions to get from it. It's like a mine that gets it's contents refreshed every season. Does gets stale and the oversaturation lowers the value. Real business owners knows these shit. Anybody who is looking to run a business or rail against the evils of capitalism should do the following:Play WoW or EVE or Albion or whatever, and purely pay for your sub via in game gold for 6 months. You will learn a lot about:
budgeting investment economic costs efficiency the value of effort and time
future value of money the actual laws of supply and demand (not what they teach in school)
the price and benefits of failure the concept of effective vs actual wages
Trust me. It's not particularly hard, but it gives a lot of perspective. I'm able to talk to my boss about financial considerations and have a good conversation because we're on the same page of how the world really works. I can't, I just can't at this point. So if women of the west are mostly entitled or it's just the left women (I hope). Where do I go to? Where can I find good women. Not saying I am great a man as I myself need to get somewhere but, knowing society now, where can we get good women, then!?Just phrasing: "where can I find good women?" has been deemed misogynistic because of the double standards of society and entitled women has made it to be.Guys are threatened by a women's masculine behavior, bad attitude and sense of entitlement. Many of them think that they're the prize because they have a rot box between their legs which is fake news. Never take any of them serious no matter how cute they think they are. Do for self and focus on prosperity.Personally I avoid people who use these mantras: "You have no idea what I did for you!" "You're not always right!" "I'm trying to help you." "What is wrong with you?"These feminists are out of their goddamn minds. The idea that a man finds her "threatening" if she "doesn't feel the need to even deal with your presence" is pure lunacy. I mean pure, utter lunacy. Who is she used to meeting? Who cares if she "deals with your presence" or not? What exactly does that even mean? She thinks men are worried they might be ignored??
Men are ignored by 95% of people as is and, personally, I LIKE that.
Who does she think she is, God?
"Oh please, Lord, please please please don't ignore me! I'm begging you!"
And you see how they turned a question about THEIR NEGATIVES into YOUR NEGATIVES?
LUNACY.Women need to stop trying to do everything that a man can do. What they need to do is everything a man can't.The true and natural desires of 99% of women that exist on an instinctual level are: love, children/family to care and raise, and for a MAN to provide and protect them. Those 3 things will make 99% of women truly happy and satisfied in life...but we have gotten so far from that and there is no turning back at this point. All of our culture, values, and traditions have been destroyed.Proverbs 13:11 Applies very well with these ladies.
Wealth gained by vanity shall be diminished, but he that gathered by labor shall increase.
It's basically talking about money made through beauty, or dishonesty, vs money made through skill building and not taking shortcuts.The detachment from reality of entitled females is a long term problem. Men have been accepting this entitlement syndrome for a long time thanks to a combination of biological drive and social conditioning. Social norms pushing marriage and coddling of female selfishness are crumbling. The problem with people who use their looks as their profession, it is temporary. Actors, actresses, and even only fans, are working with a decreasing depreciated value. Instead of getting a dependable job which relies on their skills, they choose to get a job that is dependent on their looks. Everyday more women choose to enter the fans only, eliminating someone older than themselves. It's a vicious cycle, much like the modeling world. Even professional athletes have to retire after 35 years. A whole generation of girls just repeating talking points from beyonce songs and mass media feminists. They are useless for a long term relationship. They belong to the streets. What the woman says is what you see in every "female empowerment" series/movie. You get a hyper-competent woman who is constantly sabotaged by jealous men who somehow haven't heard of a single successful woman. That's total nonsense. The "man as sole breadwinner" thing would never work nowadays (if it ever truly existed). It's the women who usually don't want a man who earns less than they do.There is a problem with self-esteem these days.A few people have way too much of it for a certain time, but the expectation doesn't decrease or go away with even an inkling of paucity perceived, and worthless quislings and sycophants made it all happen. If women keep throwing the word "independent" it is talking to a infantile entitled brain dead delusional little 3 year old girls in a body of an adult woman. Typical females in 21st century America, right? Just remember they have millions of their kind, i.e. feminists and beta drones, who support them and would in fact agree with them about being offended, being strong and independent fems, and that no man has a right to tell them anything. Societal war has been declared by Marxist America and they are winning in every department. When you put that Red star on your cap, just remember no one did anything when the Star of David had to be worn by Germans and later conquered Jews.Lucky success is like 1 hit wonders in music.
They "luckily" put together a song that is popular, but they cannot become successful musician because they don't have the skill to repeat the hit. Repeatability is the true sign of skill. I hate when women think that men are threatened by their success. Men love if their woman is successful that’s 2 paychecks you bring into a house hold each week/month, because more money equals more comfort in life. So to bring the argument that men are threatened by you making a good amount of money is just so idiotic and so far from the truth. The truth is women with class and self respect will not trust or keep women like these in their personal circles as friends. at the end of the day, a conservative woman will not respect a woman that is a pornstar or a only fans girl.What women need to realize is that men DON'T CARE if women are successful. Men don't want a rich woman, men want a good wife and mother. Its INFINITELY harder to find the latter.Man the future is bleak for modern women.. Oh well as the saying goes “Denial is a River in Africa.”.We are tired of showing respect to women who do not deserve it. To women who do not hesitate for a moment to destroy an honest man's life or to kill an innocent child in their womb.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church.
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything
MGTOW Commandments
Thou shalt do nothing
Thou shalt give nothing
Thou shalt Go My Own Way.
Thou shalt not conjugate.
Thou shalt not procreate.
Thou shalt not cohabitate
Thou shall be indifferent
Thou shall not give them attention
Thou shall not allow her behavior to go unpunished.
Thou shalt commit to keep his earnings
Thou shall help a fellow man in dire need
Thou shall prove thyself
MGTOW Supporting Commandments
Pursue peace whenever possible. Avoid contentious women. Don’t argue with feminists.
Learn how to ghost. Be invisible to women.
Don’t marry. Avoid cohabitation. Don’t let a lady live in your house.
Don’t become a walking ATM machine for women. Don’t try to buy their love. (Doesn’t work)
Don’t sleep with a slut or a crazy woman. Not worth the risk.
Guard your sperm like Fort Knox.Have fun. Find interesting things to do.
Work hard. Play hard. A minimalist lifestyle will enable you to save money and minimize debt.
Don’t forget your spiritual side. No matter how bad things seem, never give up.
If you kill yourself, they win.You are a Man; by your birth you are better than any female.
Treat all people with basic respect, even females, they are human too.
Money is life, earn as much as you can by honest means.
Never marry or give a female your sperm.AWALT, all women are like that and they will never change.
The goal of feminism is to put maximum restraint on a man’s sexuality while putting minimum restraint on a female’s sexuality.
Anything a feminist says, the opposite is the truth.There is no patriarchy.
When in a relationship whether it be a simple girlfriend or god forbid a marriage you are to put yourself or if you have a kid yourself and your kid before your wife/girlfriend.
Your happiness comes before anyone else’s happiness you are not someone else’s slave.
You should if possible keep yourself healthy or if you do risky things (like smoking or drinking) then you must partake in the highest quality of items available (not drinking bud light like white trash, or not smoking peasant shit).
Porn is free on the internet if you use adblock and you find your way around the websites then you should have little problems. You must not start paying for it.
If you work in a job you are unhappy with then quit it unless you have a good pay then just suffer through it till you are able to collect enough to the point where you could survive a few months without work. You have one only one life so enjoy it while it lasts.
You should use logic and reason and generally be a skeptical person of others claims.
Find a hobby that you enjoy and stick to it.
Unless you wanna pay child support then guard your sperm at all costs.
Do not spend more than 40 dollars on a date and if your date checks her phone then book it.
I will create my best self possible.I will not feel bad if I cannot achieve rule one as well as I wanted.
I will not treat myself as a utility to another. I will not treat others as a utility to me.
I will always use a condom anything more than third base unless I have a vasectomy.
If I ever break the condom rule I will raise a child better than Uncle Phil would. If I do not have access to the child, I will pay all child support payments.
I will never advertise my MGTOW status to others.
I will never form a relationship with another woman.
I will not criticize, condemn, or complain about others.I will never chase women again.
NEVER, EVER date a single mother.
Never do what you don’t want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.
Don’t ask a women what she wants to do.Never tell a women how much money you make.
Don’t EVER date co-workers!Never answer the phone on the weekend.
Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date.
NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her.
If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.
No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!
Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are 25 or really ready to settle down
Put yourself FIRST Don’t marry Don’t get woman pregnant Don’t cohabitate Take the red pill
Repeat daily red pills and very often
Develop a support system of MGTOW, you’ll need them and they you too.
Don’t believe what women say, only what they do Don’t date single mothers
Do what’s necessary to deprogram yourself from society’s smurf(blue-pill) conditioning
Never marry; in fact, don’t even get involved in the opposite sex, unless you like seeing your hard-earned money pissed away on bullshit
Don’t impregnate her.No kids Live healthy Find a hobby you enjoy to pass the time
Keep yourself out of trouble with the law.
Remember, a man’s home is his castle; don’t let her take 90% and you have is a basement or garage, if you’re lucky.
Remember, you’re a man, and men are rulers and conquerors!
Overdose on red pills, and toss out the blue pills
Don’t let anyone stand in the way of your route to success Thou shalt do the dance
Be proactive Begin your project with the end in mind Put yourself first
See yourself winning (Think winning) Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
Seek Self improvement always Take responsibility for your actions
Each day, do what others won’t, so that tomorrow you will do what others cannot. (except marriage or live with Women)
If you fail there’s a lesson learned. Learn it and improve
Before making any decision involving women, masturbate first
I will start this list by stating that NO ONE is entitled to the fruits of YOUR labor.
If you’re considering marriage, please read this first.
1. She will pressure you into marriage, when ironically, she is also more likely to divorce you.
2. If you leave her, you are viewed as a scumbag. If she leaves you, you are viewed as “not good enough.”
3. There is a 50% chance that you will get divorced. If you get divorced, there is a 70% chance that she will initiate the divorce. That means there is a total 35% chance of her leaving you.
4. American courts are biased against men. You will not get to see your kids and will have to pay child support/alimony.
5. During a divorce, she will take half or more of your total assets.
6. You are expected to spend 20% of your total income on an engagement ring.
7. During a divorce, she is not required to return the engagement ring
8. She can accuse you of rape and you will suffer, regardless of whether or not you actually did it.
9. If she rapes you, then no one will take it seriously. If it is vice versa, then all hell breaks loose.
10. She can hit you, and if you hit her back, you will get arrested for domestic violence.
11. She has total monopoly on sex. She chooses when to give you sex.
12. She can use sex as a tool to manipulate you. She will only give you sex if you do things for her.
13. You are expected to satisfy her sexual needs. She is not expected to satisfy your sexual needs.
14. After your first child, your sex life will die.
15. After you split up, the children will be conditioned to almost always blame you.
16. She can badmouth you to your children, causing them to resent you.
17. You are not allowed to tell her what to do because of feminism. But she is still allowed to tell you what to do.
18. If you upset her, she will punish you by emotional manipulation.
19. If you even mess up slightly, you are labeled as a “deadbeat dad/husband.”
20. But if she messes up, you are expected to “accept her flaws.”
21. She will try to change you and get angry if you don’t comply.
22. Women are more likely to get bored of the relationship.
23. Women are more likely to fall out of love.
24. Women marry up. That means you marry down.
25. Woman are taught that marriage is stability. Men are taught that marriage is responsibility.
26. If you get fired and end up unemployed, she will leave you so fast.
27. If you are going through a rough financial period, you will also go through a rough relationship period.
28. Money = sex. No money = no sex. Marriage is legalized prostitution. (Just buy a hooker).
29. If she divorces you and you are worse off financially than her, she still won’t have to pay alimony.
30. You will lose quite a bit of money through marriage: the wedding ceremony, buying her gifts, raising kids, divorce, etc.
31. During marriage, you will have no time for your hobbies. You will be expected to work and “support” your wife all the time.
32. If she doesn’t want to work, you are expected to support her in her decision.
33. If you don’t want to work, you are labeled as lazy and a leech.
34. Chances are, she won’t like your close high-school/college friends.
35. She will expect you to put her above your friends, even close friends that are more like brothers.
36. She will expect you to put her above your parents. She is your highest priority now.
37. If your parents end in poverty/homeless/terminally ill, then she will expect you to put them in a nursing home.
38. If you bring your parents home to live with you, she will leave so fast.
39. If you ever get mildly angry, then you are instantly labeled as “abusive.”
40. If she ever gets angry, then she is just “releasing her emotions.”
41. She will not let you go out with the boys.
42. If you do go out with your friends without her “permission,” expect constant phone calls and resentment when you get home.
43. So. Much. Drama. Expect to hear about how Jimmy broke up with Jenny for hours after work.
44. If you have a flaw, then she can divorce you and make a profit from it.
45. If she has a flaw, then she will still make a profit if you divorce her. It’s basically passive blackmail.
46. If you’re an athletic man, expect to lose all your muscle after getting married. Also expect to gain a lot of fat.
47. If you’re an athletic man, she will secretly resent you for your toned body, which she doesn’t have.
48. If you ever end up terminally ill, she can leave you as you’re considered a burden that will “weigh her down.”
49. If she ever ends up terminally ill, if you leave her, then you are considered a scumbag and selfish.
50. She has a whole posse of girl friends that will support her no matter what shitty actions she takes. They will enable her bad behaviors and vilify you.
There ya go there are so many innocent men that are blindly led into marriage like a sheep to slaughter. They do not realize that the whole system is against them.
It is better to die on your feet than live on your knees.
It is even better to live on your feet than die on your knees.
You’re a man with free will and independence and defend that fiercely and let no one command you.
1. She basically never loves you for who you are. She only loves what you can do for her and how you make her feel. I.e. women love more opportunistically, while men love more idealistically
2. She’s never actually yours. It’s just your turn. Rejection, abandonment and hypergamy are a part of life, i.e. nothing is permanent and most things have evolution-based causes. So
never take it too seriously or too personally. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Acquire the ‘Abundance mindset’.
3. Genuine desire cannot be negotiated; ie. if/when she really wants to have sex with you, she will find the reason, time and opportunity for it. So let her figure out why she wants to ƒuck you, never do it for her.
4. Her body her choice. Your wallet your choice. Don’t be naive or angry. Stay calm, confident, light and pleased with yourself.
5. Most western women today do not have a concept of respect for men/boyfriends/husbands on their radar, because that concept was thrown out of western culture/worldview (as a relic of patriarchal society) decades ago. Instead, disrespect for men became mainstream.
6. Women would (in general) rather share a high value (alpha) Man, than be settled down with a faithful (beta) loser. I.e. Alpha fucks, Beta bucks
7. Real man doesn’t give a damn about what a particular woman thinks about what a man needs to do to qualify as a real man
8.. True power comes from controlling your thoughts and cultivating your ego
9. Alpha male don’t play by her rules, ie. he knows how to calmly but firmly say ‘No’ to a woman, and he has no problem with it (because he knows that saying ’No’ is one of the basic tools in any negotiation)
9. Frame is everything: Authentic masculine male is calm but firm, self-confident but flexible if necessary, unwavering but playful, generally pleased with himself and doesn’t take most things too personally nor too seriously
10. Your goals stem from your vision, your vision stems from your purpose, your purpose stems from your values
11. Don’t chase anything or anybody, just accept what the reality/life brings to you and give it/him/her your full attention here and now
12. True happiness is a byproduct of your ability to heal your wounds, release your emotional baggage, accept yourself, people around you and the world as they are, find your inner smile and surrender to the flow of life
Addiction
I get his point, but I think going to the club when you are in a relationship is very strange though, I would never do it. We are all addicted to sex, so why would you go to a place that is the most well established environment for hooking up/one night stands, if you are in a relationship ? Why would you put yourself in that position ? It would be similar to a situation were say you are a recovering alcoholic, and you said that you are going to a bar or pub with a few friends, would you be surprised if your partner was be a bit suspicious or at least thought that's a bit odd ?
Loyalty and commitment
No matter how loyal of a person you think you are, in certain environments particularly when you add alcohol to the mix, we can all have the potential to cheat, so why knowingly put yourself in a situation where you are a lot more likely to cheat ? and give in to temptation.
You don't have to do anything to make you think that you or your partner could cheat, because our human biology on it's own makes us susceptible to cheating. I just don't think you should put yourself in a position of strong temptation, for your own benefit and out of respect to your partner
That's one reason why I would never go to a nightclub whilst in a relationship, I think it's incredibly disrespectful to your partner, and shows that you are not really willing to make a full commitment. You're not exactly losing out on much by not going to the club, if it's a friends birthday or something, let their single friends go with them, and go out for a dinner with them at another time.
What A Nightclub Is
When you go to a nightclub in a relationship, you are essentially saying to your partner, I'm going to the "one night stand club", but trust me I'm not going to cheat. Just like an alcoholic saying I'm just going to the pub, but I'm not going to drink. again we are not all alcoholics but we are all sexaholics, at least to a certain degree. I mean how far does the trust stretch then, if your partner said I'm going to an orgy with some friends, but I'm just going to watch, should you still just trust them ?
However one thing you can't do is go to clubs, and then say your partner can't ha.
And Hasan saying there won't be another guy who is better out there, first of all that clearly isn't true, in terms of just looks etc alone, (No offence to Hassan he's a decent enough looking guy, but a lot of guys in clubs are going to be better looking etc, depending where you live) but also people cheat with people who are a lot less attractive all the time, men in particularly could be going out with an objectively very beautiful woman, and cheat with a woman who is objectively, very, very unattractive, I've seen my friends do this many times when I was younger particularly.
Agreement
I think it's a lot more mature, responsible and healthy to just both agree, that you are both fully committed to this relationship, so you won't put yourself in situations were you may be tempted to break the commitment to each other you have made. Again I would never go to a nightclub, (at least not) without my partner whilst in a relationship, and personally although it's never happened if my girlfriend was planning on going to a nightclub without me, I would just speak to them about why I don't think that either of us should be going to nightclubs without each other, and if they disagreed, and insisted on going, I would just break up with them. I don't think that's being insecure, I think that just means that we have different values and definitions of what a committed relationship actually is. To me it's not just about committing to not cheat, but showing you are 100 % committed to not cheat, through your decisions and actions. Again otherwise were does it end. Can your partner go away for a weekend with a person of the sex they are attracted to, without you ?
